Episode 71:The Vow of Visibility And Feeling not good enough

It’s completely possible to be invisible and be in front of a million people showcasing your intelligence but never letting them see you. Sharing the theoretical things without showing people who you are and not allowing yourself to be vulnerable or sharing your story can keep you invisible to the very people you’re trying to connect and build trust with. In some cases, this is not a problem, however, if you’re a business owner or in a career where your sales or income depends on connecting with people then this can be a problem. One of the things I’ve understood working with many entrepreneurs who are building businesses online, is that people want to feel like they know you, understand you and resonate with you to build trust and do business with you.  

Join the conversation with me, your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares more about the feeling of not being good enough, the vow of visibility and how they affect us in terms of savings and income. Learn how you can change how you see yourself and relate to self by tracing and healing ancestral traumas. 

 

Tune in!

During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:01] Introduction to the show 

[02:27] Today’s focus: Feeling not good enough and the vow of visibility

[03:48] Feeling not good enough and how it differentiates with gender

[07:43] How the vow of invisibility and feeling not good enough played out in Vangile’s life

[11:32] What happens when people heal from the vow of invisibility 

[12:11] Your business and the feeling not good enough

[15:06] Lessons from Vangile's desire for a PhD to get more validation  

[21:51] Allowing yourself to show up, be seen and increase your income 

[23:01] Showing up, articulating your value and pricing your services

[25:26] Why positive self-affirmations don’t work in healing the feeling of not being good enough

[27:57] The vow of invisibility meditation and how you can use it for healing 

[31:53] The tie between the vow of invisibility and collective trauma

[38:23] Tracing ancestral trauma and healing the ancestors' stories 

[40:54] How to register for the money magic course

[44:13] Ending the show and call to actions

Notable Quotes 

• The vow of invisibility has so little to do with showing up in front of people.
• Sharing your story will help you connect and build trust with people
• Feelings of not being enough will make you miss opportunities to connect with people at a deeper level.  
• Sometimes the trauma isn’t from this lifetime; it’s from other lifetimes 
• The way we see ourselves impacts the way we show up 

Let’s Connect 

Vangile Makwakwa

Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

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