Episode 68: What happens when expansion is the trigger

In this week’s podcast, I talk about how the very idea of expansion can be a trigger for us and can actually cause us to shut down.

The fear of expanding beyond our family and community is a common fear. Most of us have a sense of dread about this, and the reasons behind this go back to our childhood experiences. To some of us, it comes as fear of rejection and being othered when we expand beyond our tribe, and to some of us, it can feel like our expansion is a betrayal and we are abandoning our families which can prevent us from connecting with our income goals. 

Expansion, especially in collective cultures, can often trigger family dynamics and sibling rivalry, leading to resentment and anger within the family unit, thus creating a barrier to moving forward and keeping you stuck in the past. The fear of expanding is rooted in trauma.

Join the conversation with your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares more about expansions, family dynamics, and the concept of generation wealth. She also shares her childhood trauma that makes it unsafe for her to achieve and expand beyond her mother, how it has played out in her life, and her inner work toward healing.  

 

Tune in!

During this episode, you will learn about;

[00:01] Introduction to the show 

[03:32] Today’s focus: Expansion and family dynamics and creating generational wealth

[04:42] How to set income goals that connect with your body

[08:32] Vangile’s breakthrough from her inner work in reaching her income goal

[10:07] Feeling into your body and your income goals 

[11:30] Vangile’s experience with her new income goals and trauma triggers

[17:34] How fear holds us back and Vangile’s trauma experiences growing up 

[25:15] How expansions lead to family dynamics and sibling rivalry

[26:57] Inner child and teen triggers’ control over expansion

[28:11] It’s not safe to expand beyond my mother

[37:32] How the fear of achieving more has played out in her life

[44:18] The fear of leaving the village

[45:41] How to join the wealthy money magic course

[47:22] Why we tend to attract the mirrors of what we don’t heal 

[49:39] Expansion that feels like a betrayal to the very people we love

[51:03] Join the Wealthy Money master class; Emotional Intelligence Around Money

[52:54] Ending the show and call to actions

Notable Quotes 

• The body never lies, you can create goals, but it all comes down to the body.
• As you work through your beliefs, the way you respond to situations starts to shift.
• The role of fear and anxiety is to keep you stuck
• Awareness and healing are two different concepts 
• We tend to attract the mirrors of the traumas that we don't heal.
• Healing on vast levels leads to the most incredible insights and life changes.

Let’s Connect 

Vangile Makwakwa

Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/

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